麥朵赫
Mai-Duohe
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We humans have been “brainwashed” from born.
“Win from the beginning”, “Breakfast is important”, “People get married when they grow up”, we heard these since we were children. Besides, “People need 7 to 8 hours a night”, “People died if they do not eat and drink anything”, “My body is living for me”, everybody think these are common sense.
When you change your point of view, you will also change your attitude, and that will change your daily life, then change your relationship, even change your whole life.
Life as binary opposition, argument is inevitable. One says “Win from the beginning”, other one would say “Lose from the beginning”. One says “Breakfast is important”, other one might say “Skipping breakfast is healthier”. We heard “People get married when they grow up”, but when we actually grown up, we find people have the right to be single, marriage is not necessary for everyone.
In fact, concepts are not good or bad, right or wrong itself. Different concepts could be correct in different situation. Difference becomes opposition, everyone insists their opinion, it cause argument and conflict.
To avoid conflict happen is what people need to do, but most people do not know their responsibilities. They only know about material comfort, lost in finding enjoyment.
If you want to change other people, you should change yourself first. When your mind changed, then everything changed. If you can abandon all your concept, that is even better.
有一個渾沌的宇宙，在一個氣候如同秋天的當下，突然明白了一切！
妳和我在國小相遇，在國中相遇，在高中相遇，最後一次在車站相遇。
在車站那次，不經意地被重重拍了一下，甚至沒看清是誰，就匆匆背我而去；
儘管只是背影，但我知道會那樣拍我的人只有妳，
我眺著妳前面的人，完全理解為何妳會如此疾促，連話也沒留一句。
請原諒我的無知與無明，我辜負了曾經對我生命意義重大的心意，
妳的痛苦來得太早，且漫長，而我的，卻來的太晚；
不論妳身在何處，只願妳現今一切安好。
許久未曾作詩，特贈予妳：
「 娑婆有情恰似君，不讓鬚眉人中鳳，外剛內柔喜自得，萬法生輝處處安。」